The Myth of ‘Too Young to Plan’—Why Death Planning Isn’t Just for the Elderly

Let’s bust the myth: death planning isn’t just for old age

You’re 27. You’ve finally got decent health insurance. You’re thinking about switching careers—or cities—or having a kid. And the idea of estate planning? That’s for your parents, right?

Not exactly.

If you’re a 20- or 30-something, the idea of planning for death might feel premature. But here’s the truth: death planning is just smart life planning.

In fact, younger adults arguably have more to lose by not having a plan.

What “death planning” really means in your 20s and 30s

Death planning for young adults isn’t about writing a eulogy. It’s about clarity, care, and control over your future—and the legacy you leave behind.

Here’s what it often looks like:

• A will that protects your partner, pets, or digital assets

• An advance directive so your wishes are honored in a crisis

• A legacy letter to share the values, memories, and messages that matter most

• A secure plan for your passwords, photos, and social accounts

• Thoughtful choices about burial, cremation, or digital memorials

  
  

None of this requires gray hair or a diagnosis. It just requires intention.

Why young adults actually should plan earlier

Because life is unpredictable

A car crash. An illness. A freak accident. We don’t like to think about it, but young people die every day—without warning and without plans. That leaves loved ones scrambling through grief and bureaucracy.

Because you probably already have something worth protecting

Do you rent an apartment? Own a car? Have a kid, a dog, or a bank account? Have a partner who depends on you? Then you have something to protect.

Because your digital life is real life

What happens to your Instagram when you're gone? Your crypto wallet? Your writing, videos, or art? These questions aren’t theoretical. They’re already showing up in court.

Legacy is more than legal documents—it’s what lives on

Death planning isn’t just paperwork. It’s storytelling. It’s choosing how you want to be remembered. It’s giving your people a roadmap for what matters most—because clarity is one of the kindest gifts you can leave behind.

You don’t need to have it all figured out—you just need to start

Maybe you’re not ready to write a will. That’s okay. But you can:

• Talk to your people about your values and wishes

• Write down a few instructions in case of emergency

• Use a legacy platform to create a digital record of your life and intentions

You don’t have to be “ready” to die. You just have to care enough to prepare.

The myth of “too young to plan” is just that—a myth.

Planning for death when you're young isn’t morbid. It’s radical. It’s loving. It’s brave.

And in a world that avoids hard conversations, it’s one of the most powerful things you can do.

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